2021.09.21 03:52 dankmeatballgirl I feel like my boyfriend has abandoned me for his friends.
I (20F) have been dating my boyfriend (19M) since junior year of high school (3 1/2) years. We had previously been doing good, this summer was really fun and we did a lot of things together like going to the beach and going on a road trip together. I felt like I was the only girl in his world, and was at my peak. I was confident, happy with myself, etc.
Since college has started again this year, things have been going downhill.
Me and him go to the same college, and I thought that would be fun but now I'm wishing that he went to a different school. My boyfriend has always been a sarcastic dude, and likes to tease but that had in the past always been out of love.
We don't live together, and don't plan on it anytime soon. He lives with one other guy while I live with 3 other girls in a separate apartment. His roommate is complicated, some days he's nice and some days he is an ass, they met each other last year when they were freshmen but I feel like he has influenced how my boyfriend has treated me.
My boyfriend also has a female friend from high school who lives with her friends in the same building a few floors up from them. They hangout often and drink. I'm not against people having friends of the opposite gender, but I feel like this friend is super nice but has done questionable things when under the influence that have been disrespectful to me and his relationship in the past (she tried to cuddle with him right in front of me a few years ago). I forgave her about it since it's been a few years and never held it against my boyfriend, but it has tainted my trust in her.
Recently ever since he's been at college he's been hanging out with his friends more and not wanting to spend time with me. He never texts me anymore to go on date nights, or ask me how my day has been, or even invite me over, it's always me that is iniating everything (except for sex, of course...). He never wants to spend time at my place or hangout with my friends, but chooses to spend time with this his female friends over me every time. I feel like everytime I try to communicate with him on this, he gets defensive with me and tries to shut me down, telling me I'm crazy and that I get mad at him all the time. Anytime I bring something up about his friends, he immediately starts yelling and getting mad. I feel like heaven phorbid something happened between one his friends and I, he would chose their side over mine. What hurts the most is that I feel like I can't even talk about my feelings with him anymore, that he doesn't care.
I'm lost and I don't know what to do. I love this man, I tried everything and he tells me he loves me, but I don't believe him at this point. I feel like maybe I've matured too much for him? I'm so mentally exhausted and depressed, I literally cry every night stressing myself over this. Im on my period this week and he literally told me " I don't want to hangout with you if you're not going to be nice". I honestly don't know what to do, I don't know how I'm supposed to not get mad when I'm reacting to him.
To the men reading this, please give me your advice. I know that you guys don't think on the same page as women, but I want to know what I'm doing wrong and how I can move forward. I love him, I want to believe he loves me too, he says that he doesn't hate me but I feel like I walk in eggshells whenever something happens, and I feel like he resents me and I don't even know what I did....
I'm sorry if this is hard to understand, I'm not the best writer in the world so if you guys need more information or anything I'll try to answer it as best as I can.
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2021.09.21 03:52 carebare2 Why are republicans so dumb?
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2021.09.21 03:52 PANDAZED00 20M looking for a friend
Don’t know how well this will go but I just need friends, I’ve had a rough time here recently and I just need to meet some new people anyone, just to try and clear my head. I’m an open book shoot me a message or comment and I’d be glad to talk to anyone
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2021.09.21 03:52 Just-Cauliflower9547 19M looking for people to chill with
Hey there, just looking for a new friend group. I unfortunately cut ties with my previous one after highschool so I've been basically all alone since the lockdowns started. Would be nice to go out and have fun. Feel free to dm me if y'all are down (:
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2021.09.21 03:52 DanielLandKing Lathargic behavior
I recently got a betta fish, and for the first 2 weeks, he was very active and would explore the tank a lot. But now, for the past 2 weeks my Betta fish has been laying at the bottom of the tank almost all of the time, even when there is food. My water parameters are in check, I have a heater and filter, and he's in a 10 gallon with 4 shrimp. Is there and problems with him and what can I do to make him become active again.
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2021.09.21 03:52 thatharryhedgehogguy "I wish someone would crash this stupid wedding."
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2021.09.21 03:52 sammyt10803 Do you think any of the Good Good guys voted for Biden?
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2021.09.21 03:52 ThrowItAway0008 Anyone else surprised by how many profiles have so many photos obscuring faces?
There’s nothing wrong with a photo with sunglasses. I just looked at a profile where she was wearing sunglasses in 4 photos, 1 with a mask (and no sunglasses), and then one with a motorcycle helmet on.
This can also be frustrating with profiles that have more group photos than single photos.
And while I’m ranting, has anyone ever seen a marriage photo? Like the woman is wearing a wedding gown? I’ve been doing online dating for a week and a half total, and I’ve come across two of these. One even had the groom in it.
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2021.09.21 03:52 True_Ad_3374 Gf (F20) could possibly kiss another man in her theather class (M20)
So basically there is a chance my girl kisses a dude in her theather class for strictly acting purposes. I get it cuz she actually wants that career and I would not want to tell somebody that they shouldn't chase their goals but that just rub me the wrong way. She is apparently just started scenes and it's an argument between a couple, ofc that's the scene because why not test our relationship. I'm 100% with people chasing their dreams but I'm just not with that and think it's wrong even if it doesn't mean anything. The way I see if I am high or drunk n don't know what's goin on n kiss another female but it doesn't mean anything then it's wrong but it isn't when she is doing it for a class (she said it doesn't mean anything that is why I'm thinking about that scenario). I am just kinda torn on what to think and do cuz ik for a fact that will never be cool with me, I am kinda hoping she change majors and don't do it but maybe we just aren't meant for each other. On another hand there were signs for each of us that we should be together. I'm definitely looking for comments that simply say "break up" or "your immature" because there is a thing about this thread where people love hating on peoples feelings. Anykinda advice will do and I'm not saying you can't say those things but if you do at least add to it and please give me advice
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2021.09.21 03:52 ReformedWheeze I feel like this is a catfish 🥴
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2021.09.21 03:52 Mr_Porcupine Antoine in Wyoming able to offer assistance?
Hello friends, I'm putting my feelers out for some mechanical help. I'm on my way to Oregon for the Northwest Nomads event in my Skoolie. My bus has been having some intermittent power issues at low rpms, and about an hour ago, my turbo blew.
I'm reaching out for anyone who might be passing through Wyoming with mechanical know how to get me going again. I have tools and know how, but I'm trying to get fixed as affordably as possible.
Thanks all, stay safe out there.
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2021.09.21 03:52 BRNzzzx Não sei se meu relacionamento é tóxico (ajuda)
Eu sempre fui muito trancado com as pessoas, menos com quem era do meu ciclo, mas aos meus 16 anos comecei a me soltar muito, nessa idade tinha ficado com apenas 1 menina, e então decidi me parecer mais "descolado" e comecei a forçar um personagem, que é confiante, seguro, e muito extrovertido, eu literalmente mudei minha personalidade drasticamente, logo após das minhas "relações rápidas" com garotas diferentes, eu queria experimentar namorar sério, ou até mesmo casar kkkkj, eu tentei com uma menina ela até queria, mas não rolou por conta que fui muito criança e imaturo, e logo depois eu tentei com outra e deu certo, hoje estou com 5 meses de namoro sério, eu tenho 17 e ela tem 15, no começo ela era muito calada, e muito tímida, eu sempre tomava a decisão pra tudo, e o tempo foi passando, e ela demonstrando cada vez mais, ser mimada, ciumenta, e muito insegura, juntando nós dois forma literalmente uma bola de insegurança, porque eu também sou inseguro com vários aspectos meus, mas depois que comecei a ficar com ela, tenho medo do meu futuro com ela, pois ela fica cada dia mais folgada na nossa relação, e praticamente deixando de ser aquela menina encantadora, sempre que saimos temos briguinhas bobas, e no final se resolvemos mas depois começa o mesmo ciclo, e estamos a 3 meses assim, 1 semana brigas e 1 semana só coisa boa, me afastei muito de amigos, e da vida que tinha antes e de coisas que gostava por ela, mas agora estou percebendo vários erros que eu cometi e estou tentando resolver, recuperando o "eu" do passado, eu não quero terminar com ela, quero apenas voltar a ser realmente o que eu sou, e não o personagem que fiz pra agradar ela, porém tenho medo de que nessa transição eu a perca...
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2021.09.21 03:52 GiraffeGrad Best Broker for Squeezes?
Basically the title. I want to switch brokers from Fidelity. I want to be able to use a broker that doesn’t automatically loan my shares when I’m on margin. If that’s not possible, then what’s the most short squeeze friendly broker out there?
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