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How should I act towards my friend who makes the least effort and never initiates plans/texts and simply waits for others to invite her (22f and 23f)

2021.07.29 00:00 Affectionate_Mess_56 How should I act towards my friend who makes the least effort and never initiates plans/texts and simply waits for others to invite her (22f and 23f)

Me and my friend (Z) are both in college and I live at home while she commutes from another city. We have a girls chat with about three other girls and I've noticed that she never initiates a conversation unless she needs help. Like of course there are dry periods too but everyone will occasionally send something funny or a memory or anything to catch up with the others. Communicating with this friend often feel like a chore as though I am bothering her. I don't expect her world to revolve around her college friends but sometimes it feels like she just became friends for convenience, like someone to sit with in class and tag along with to lectures. It is clear that this isnt simply how she is because she is constantly going out with her boyfriend or her hometown friends when she's not in college. She has never made plans first with us, but if I ever offer her to have dinner at mine since she travels an hour or so to come here, she jumps at the chance but NEVER reciprocates. Even on her birthday, naturally we friends wanted to do something for Z but it would have to be at her apartment because of COVID. This too felt like we were intruding and she didn't really want us there. We planned this ourselves like a week after her birthday but she seemed so unbothered about doing something with us that it kind of took the fun out of it. She might as well say "We can do something for my birthday if you want i dont really care". She also has this tendency to play dumb because she isn't from our town, kind of like " I don't know the area so I can't make any plans first". But when her bf is over, she'll plan a whole spontaneous day out with him in our town.
Recently, we decided to plan a catch up with four of us as we haven't been together for about three months now. My other two friends had to postpone for very valid reasons but arranged another date. In the meantime though, myself and Z planned to do our own outing on the original day. She then messages me saying she can't come so I asked her about the day before. All she said was "I'm staying at a friends sorry!" and gave no other date or indication that she wanted to meet.
Am I just being an entitled drama queen or is it obvious that she couldn't care much about me and the other girls at college? Out of everyone, she makes the least amount of effort and it's like she needs a separate invite because she's always out of the loop with everything.
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2021.07.29 00:00 1dererLives Today is "Great Upheaval Day", which commemorates the thousands of Acadians who were expelled from Nova Scotia beginning in 1755. Many of the deported died, due to illness or shipwreck, during the deportation process.

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2021.07.29 00:00 throwawayjobukref Asked for a transer within the company but I dont like the new role offered

Hey all,
A follow up from this post from a couple of months ago
I stuck with the job and told my bosses I was having trouble, in which they suggested a lateral move to another job role that they will try to "accomodate me in" whatever that means. It took a few weeks to get this going but I had an initial call with one of the senior members of the team and they broke down my new role
It sounds a lot worse than my current role, even worse if we consider that I'll have more responsibilities. It's practically a promotion but I'm so shit at my current role and so unenthused that I don't understand how I've been offered this role. I must admit, I have a disability which I disclosed to my company which I think they're trying to tread carefully as to not avoid any potentially blowback if they just sack me or get rid of me. I'd rather stay in this current role for now but everyone has bent over backwards to try and accomodate this move and I'll feel like a div for moving now.
I dont really know what to do. The people in the company are nice, but I'm miserable in this job. I literally go to bed wishing I die in my sleep, and I wake up with dread. Life just feels grey and bland. I've gained about 20kg in weight in a few months due to me comfort eating due to potential depression and I'm just in the worst mood of my life. I'm irritable to pretty much everyone in my house and I am antisocial most of the time, if I stay where I am then by the time Winter arrives and the weather gets shit I'd have probably developed an alcohol addiction LOL.
I have been applying for other jobs but I feel so defeated that I feel like I can't do anything. Let's not talk about the state of the economy, unemployment and the competitiveness for jobs here in the UK at this present moment. I don't know if I'm living in cuckoo land but I really wanted a creative job in the creative industry, and this job pretty much reeled me in the creative industry but with none of the creative aspects
I dont know how to go about this. If I flake and say "I want to stay in my current role" then I give off the aspect of not wanting further responsibility and potentially setting a bad reputation. I'm just looking for advice. Life just doesn't feel worth living.
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2021.07.29 00:00 vgmasters2 Can we talk on how nonsensical Super is?

Outside of the whole nonesense that the Goku Black arc is, what the actual fuck is the tournament of power? and even the Frieza arc...?

Why is Master Roshi suddenly able to power up so much that he can beat people in the Frieza army and the tournament of power? why did he never do this shit before? he has done 0 training nor is he even supposed to be strong WITH training, considering that while he was at his peak age with full on training he could only beat OG Picoro with some cheese technique... hell he should've been able to beat Raditz then at the very least...

I have a dislike for some of the irrelevant characters getting power boosts that make no sense, even Krilin being stronger than base Super Saiyan is bullshit enough but Roshi?
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2021.07.29 00:00 autotldr Foreign businesses must plan for risk of Chinese confiscation: Suntory CEO

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As tensions between Beijing and the outside world ratchet ever higher, multinational companies that have invested huge sums over the last two decades in what they believed was the market of the future, face a crucial choice: Do they begin to draw down their investments and limit their exposure to China in anticipation of a worsening of relations? Or do they stay the course, hoping relations stabilize? In a candid interview with Newsweek, the CEO of a major Japanese multinational, Takeshi Niinami of Suntory, the beer and spirits maker, acknowledged the increasing risks of doing business of China-going so far as to use the word "Confiscation" to describe the worst-case scenario of what could happen to a company's assets on the mainland.
"Should we invest more in China knowing that the possibility of confiscation [exists]? Do we take the risk, or not? To what extent? If it's 10 billon , maybe not. Five billion? Probably. So we have to judge to what extent we can tolerate confiscation. That's risk analysis. And I believe we have to decide sooner or later."
In 2020, a year in which China supplanted the United States as the largest overall recipient of foreign direct investment, Japanese investment in China was $11.3 billion.
Suntory's conclusion is driven in part by the familiar reasons driving decision-making for any company producing products for the China market: "We have to produce products suited for Chinese consumers," Niinami says, and to do so requires "More time and resources."
A consumer products company like Suntory can feel comfortable investing in China, "But not technology [companies]," Niinami acknowledges.
"Ironically, one of the reasons a consumer products company like Suntory needs to be in China is technology. Specifically, China's advances in artificial intelligence."Staying in China means a lot, because they have the state-of-the-art AI technology.
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2021.07.29 00:00 poopsicle28 How do you copy and paste a drawing from one key frame to another?

I am making an animation of a bouncing ball, I am trying to copy the drawing of the ball from one frame to another but when I select it and copy it and then try to paste it, it instead creates a new layer.
I checked and Krita is set so ctrl + c is copy and ctrl + v is paste so I have no idea why its doing this. I know how to copy a frame, but i'm trying to copy a specific drawing in the frame to another frame.
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2021.07.29 00:00 lotusflowerbomb2121 Thoughts? This look concerning? My brother spotted this on my scalp and I can’t tell if my health anxiety is making it itch or it’s itchy Lol. I have an appt September 10, I’m trying to get an quicker one but my dermatologists seem to be busy…

Thoughts? This look concerning? My brother spotted this on my scalp and I can’t tell if my health anxiety is making it itch or it’s itchy Lol. I have an appt September 10, I’m trying to get an quicker one but my dermatologists seem to be busy… submitted by lotusflowerbomb2121 to Melanoma [link] [comments]

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2021.07.29 00:00 Iceycat1234 What should I do?

Hello Reddit I’m 19 I’m gonna be a sophomore at the university of Arkansas this fall. I stayed home and got my basics out of the way at a local college. So here’s where I need some advice, I’m majoring in finance, the reason is I feel it’s a good major and will set me up for a good future. The issues? Well here we go, my passion is acting, tbh I love the creative aspect of acting and it’s something I can’t quite not do. I also just absolutely love the process of movie making, I’m interested in writing, directing, acting, scoring films. (I have a music background.) Anyways idk what I’m doing, I have time to change my major but I also don’t want to major in a bs field and waste money. So what should I do? I’m not a huge fan of finance, I’m more creative so I really need some advice. Life advice, career advice, anything.
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2021.07.29 00:00 DisneyFoLife SZNS Albums with pre-existing Weezer songs?

If you guys were to make SZNS Albums based off of what they said their sound will be like with only existing Weezer songs, what do you think they would look like?
A reminder this is what they said the sounds would be for each season:
Spring - Happy Chill
Summer - Youthful Indignation
Fall - Anxiety, Fear
Winter - Sadness, grief over loss
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