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21F anxious to tell her parents about her 40M boyfriend

2021.04.14 20:45 lord_azula 21F anxious to tell her parents about her 40M boyfriend

As the title says, first of all i created this account just to let go my anxiety and ask for advice... Any advice is highly appreciated.
Me 21F first met my boyfriend when i was 16, then became in a relationship with him at 17.5 yo, i come from an arab country, my parents are religious and my mom is extremely religious (christian), i always had issues with them since a young age, always lying to them and fearing them and their reaction, about grades, school or relationship basically i didnt have a strong personality, i had several boyfriends that i never told them about, the only time i told them that i am in a relationship when i was 16 , my mom didnt let me see my bf outside highschool for the reason of " what will people say about you" like its a shame being in love or being in a relationship...i always had fights with my parents, when i met my current boyfriend i told him everything about my parents and that i can't tell them now unless when this relationship will get serious... we have been through ups and downs a lot, i met his friends and so did he, i met his parents and his dad before he died but my parents didnt get the chance to meet him or my boyfriend.
My boyfriend is a great man, very honest and loving and we accepted each others as we are, and we took this choice to be in a relationship together and we have been for 4 years now... Last week he wanted to finally meet my parents cause we want to get married eventually and i want too and want to move from my parent's house... but i told him to meet him first and have a serious talk to be sure about this step and so did we.
Last two years my relationship wih my parents was better, there is ups and downs but its more relaxed, since last year they were joking about me to get married since i finished college and now doing my masters and i have a job, they're always like when are u gona get married? And my mom was engaged when she was 17 to my dad, their age difference is 7 years.
The point is, all those two years i have been building my relationship better with my parents, and i have grew so much, on saturday my bf is gona come have a cup of coffee at home and meet my parents, i still didnt tell them cause im extremly nervous (btw they met my bf once but as a friend) so my fear is that they won't accept my relationship... I know that i am marrying him not them, but they dont think that way, and they arent used to the idea of me having a bf so what about a bf for 4 years now and we suddenly want to get married... How can i tell them? Or what should i do? I dont want to lose any side... Maybe they will accept and maybe not, i can't not overthink it!! I really need help any advice is appreciated! Thank you
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I am chronically depressed. Usually I can sort of manage, but lately the flare ups have been worse than ever before. Even though I've been doing my exposure therapy, CBT exercises, exercising, eating, all the right stuff, I still hate myself and want to die. Every hour of every day I am weighed down by either intense self hate or crippling anxiety. It's exhausting, and I feel like I'm living in a separate world than my partner and family. They have no idea how severely I bully myself. They just see the side effects; my impotent quiet personality, my brain-fog and inattentiveness (even on top of my ADHD, lmao), my pessimism. I feel like my failure to manage this stupid condition is slowly pushing them away.
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